Grief arises as a rumbling deep from within our soul as we take in the experience of loss. Without it, our soul is numb, for grief deepens and expands our experience in life as we are changed through the meaning we give it. It softens the hardened heart bringing forth a greater understanding and empathy for others.
By allowing grief to soften the heart, it is no longer entrapped by irrational demand to control and impossible outcome, but is freed to form a new sense of compassion and empowerment. We are awakened to a new perspective our our wold that we would not have had without the experience of grief.
That we love implies that well will grieve. There are times that only through the depth of our grief are we able to truly see the depth of our love. To understand love, one must also understand grief.
Grief: an encasement of sorrow surrounding us like a tight fitting blanket; black, encasing us in endless pain and sadness. We lose sight of our direction and lose touch with our souls. Hidden behind the darkness of our emotions a dark veil of disconnection descends between us and the inner light of our being. Within the shadow of grief we cook and grow, fostering a reemergence as a seed protected within its cocoon like shell. Hard and alienated, life continues to well within. Awaiting the moment of life giving water allowing it to break its shell and come forth into the world anew and vibrant.
We are not alone in the world with our grief. Everyone on the planet experiences grief at some point in their lives. Because we love, we form attachments with others and we experience grief when those attachments are broken. If we had formed a bond, then we will experience grief if it is broken.
Grief is an essential process for healing from a loss. Experiencing grief is unavoidable if we are to heal. Grief is the process that allows us to take in the reality of the loss unchaining us from the past and allowing us to move forward in our own life.
We may not want to accept what has occurred. We may become angry about it; and in that process, we connect with feelings that reveal to us the depths of our love for that individual.
As our loss sinks deeper, hopelessness, deep sadness and depression reveal themselves to us. We shut down and go quiet allowing the healing to begin on the inside. We are now acknowledging our loss and in the process we are slowed by depression eventually allowing us to come to acceptance over the loss that has occurred. It is a slow cooking process, not to be hurried. It is a sign that we are healing.
As we come to acceptance, we release our demand on a different outcome. Acceptance doe3s not mean that we like the outcome, but we stop fighting our loss and that gives us permission to move forward and join life again.
With the dawn or our acceptance, we reach out to others. We reaffirm our current relationships and we engage in forming new ones. We once again address our own needs.
Find those things that you enjoy, allow yourself to take a rest from your emotions without placing judgment on yourself.
Dr. Walton's latest album, Healing from Grief and Finding Peace in Your Life, was just released. Check it out on iTunes, Amazon.com, and CDbaby for free samples. For more information on Dr. James E. Walton you may log onto his website at LAtherapist.com There you will find free affirmation downloads, videos, self-help CDs and helpful topical pages for you to explore.
By allowing grief to soften the heart, it is no longer entrapped by irrational demand to control and impossible outcome, but is freed to form a new sense of compassion and empowerment. We are awakened to a new perspective our our wold that we would not have had without the experience of grief.
That we love implies that well will grieve. There are times that only through the depth of our grief are we able to truly see the depth of our love. To understand love, one must also understand grief.
Grief: an encasement of sorrow surrounding us like a tight fitting blanket; black, encasing us in endless pain and sadness. We lose sight of our direction and lose touch with our souls. Hidden behind the darkness of our emotions a dark veil of disconnection descends between us and the inner light of our being. Within the shadow of grief we cook and grow, fostering a reemergence as a seed protected within its cocoon like shell. Hard and alienated, life continues to well within. Awaiting the moment of life giving water allowing it to break its shell and come forth into the world anew and vibrant.
We are not alone in the world with our grief. Everyone on the planet experiences grief at some point in their lives. Because we love, we form attachments with others and we experience grief when those attachments are broken. If we had formed a bond, then we will experience grief if it is broken.
Grief is an essential process for healing from a loss. Experiencing grief is unavoidable if we are to heal. Grief is the process that allows us to take in the reality of the loss unchaining us from the past and allowing us to move forward in our own life.
We may not want to accept what has occurred. We may become angry about it; and in that process, we connect with feelings that reveal to us the depths of our love for that individual.
As our loss sinks deeper, hopelessness, deep sadness and depression reveal themselves to us. We shut down and go quiet allowing the healing to begin on the inside. We are now acknowledging our loss and in the process we are slowed by depression eventually allowing us to come to acceptance over the loss that has occurred. It is a slow cooking process, not to be hurried. It is a sign that we are healing.
As we come to acceptance, we release our demand on a different outcome. Acceptance doe3s not mean that we like the outcome, but we stop fighting our loss and that gives us permission to move forward and join life again.
With the dawn or our acceptance, we reach out to others. We reaffirm our current relationships and we engage in forming new ones. We once again address our own needs.
Find those things that you enjoy, allow yourself to take a rest from your emotions without placing judgment on yourself.
Dr. Walton's latest album, Healing from Grief and Finding Peace in Your Life, was just released. Check it out on iTunes, Amazon.com, and CDbaby for free samples. For more information on Dr. James E. Walton you may log onto his website at LAtherapist.com There you will find free affirmation downloads, videos, self-help CDs and helpful topical pages for you to explore.