tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post4360620609124967548..comments2023-06-25T08:57:16.761-07:00Comments on Dr. Jim: The LA Therapist: 6 Essential Stages for Healing from A Break Up: You Can Heal!Dr. James E. Walton, Ph.D.http://www.blogger.com/profile/12335911454594624404noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-37235184646444659392015-07-16T06:50:20.453-07:002015-07-16T06:50:20.453-07:00Thank you for posting this. I hope it would help m...Thank you for posting this. I hope it would help me on what I'm going through right now. <br />He was my first love. I thought that it qould be the two of us forever. But things happen, people change, and also their feelings for you.. oh my, don't know what to do. And what's going to happen. :'(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-34365236900498024442015-05-22T04:05:27.224-07:002015-05-22T04:05:27.224-07:00I love this. So very relevant, and the best advice...I love this. So very relevant, and the best advice I have managed to find. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-77695546344990804762015-05-21T04:38:40.256-07:002015-05-21T04:38:40.256-07:00Well I am still in denial. He is going to marry an...Well I am still in denial. He is going to marry another woman and he still claims that he loves me, he just getting married to her because her family is forcing him (arrange marriage). I do not know how to break open out of the box with him still around, calling and hanging out. UhmAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-60320572585470890392015-05-18T14:40:44.124-07:002015-05-18T14:40:44.124-07:00Wow.
I so feel your pain...you are a wonderful per...Wow.<br />I so feel your pain...you are a wonderful person..<br />This was a long time ago however.<br />How are you feeling now??<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-64926754052912218792015-05-01T06:55:22.881-07:002015-05-01T06:55:22.881-07:00True. Need to go through these stages. It won'...True. Need to go through these stages. It won't kill you so just do what is needed to get rid and replace your ex. Commit to the breakup, and do it your way. Later you will receive the gift of peace and happiness from it. We must feel all these emotions to fade away. Also do not regret whatever you did or what happened during the recovery. Keep going, in 1 to 2 months you will be fine and brand nee you. Goodluck !!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-5574432547635500862015-04-18T12:23:14.998-07:002015-04-18T12:23:14.998-07:00This has help me to accept the fact that he's...This has help me to accept the fact that he's no longer part of my life, I just wish not to see him again, also I don't want to know nothing about his life almost for months. Im making a lot of changes in room, life, goals, myself. I want to be my new me. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-54639742716973471592014-12-28T14:50:18.453-08:002014-12-28T14:50:18.453-08:00The whole stage of sadness is so true it some how ...The whole stage of sadness is so true it some how heals you and brings you back to a path that is enriching in a new way <br />Very well writtenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-15297097225590481622014-10-05T20:54:03.705-07:002014-10-05T20:54:03.705-07:00Im coming out of anger and into such sadness. Feel...Im coming out of anger and into such sadness. Feels like it will never end! Cant stop crying and i cant stand silence.... Cant sleep well.. How long does this last?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-50991785579986847452014-01-08T17:05:07.762-08:002014-01-08T17:05:07.762-08:00I've just hit the anger stage after stupidly t...I've just hit the anger stage after stupidly texting I still love her, to be hit with a very cold response. I replied oh well I'm off to France snowboarding next week, which I have just booked! Haha I didn't get a reply, feel a bit better now, and I'm sure I will feel a whole lot better when I'm on the piste! <br />;-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-75861892067626488512013-10-24T06:16:59.242-07:002013-10-24T06:16:59.242-07:00this is an amazing article. it's put so many t...this is an amazing article. it's put so many things into perspective. thank you for posting this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-39869099140777697762013-10-15T22:36:45.810-07:002013-10-15T22:36:45.810-07:00You're in between the first and second stage.You're in between the first and second stage. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-44771906615947803902013-09-27T04:04:34.676-07:002013-09-27T04:04:34.676-07:00My relationship has just finished a few days back ...My relationship has just finished a few days back so unfortunately I'm in the first stages, very, very painful at the moment and it's a struggle day to day living at the moment (dramatic maybe but true) I really hope I can take my ex girlfriend off of that ridiculous pedestal I have her on at the moment abd realise she's not the be all and end all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-74148891247064164602013-09-15T20:41:06.253-07:002013-09-15T20:41:06.253-07:00Ive myself just broken up , he broke up with me in...Ive myself just broken up , he broke up with me in a violent rage if people leave you for no good reason let them leave things and life happen for reasons that are only going to be clear when your completely alone and clear minded to see , saddness and acceptance does bring you a gift but its somthing thats already inside you that is now activated and thats your own strength from your survival mode a man who truly loves you will never hurt you , he would rather hurt himself and thats no lie ! focus on you now cut all contacts with your partner and soon enough you will feel yourself again but you'll be that little bit wiser !Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-65441041777008890052013-08-15T00:24:32.498-07:002013-08-15T00:24:32.498-07:00I was in a relationship for 5 yrs on n off n i nev...I was in a relationship for 5 yrs on n off n i never called off.. She did.. N now thinkin about her hurts so much... It feels just like the 1st time she left me.. Y i keep comin back to her because i love her n ppl may think im stupid but i cant control my heart... All she said was "i need my social life" n now we hv 2 little ones n i just feel bad for them too because she doesnt let me spend enough time with them... N she doesnt spend time with them either because "she works" i really dnt know what i feel to be honest.. Some days i feel so strong n some so helpless... Angry.. Foegiveness... I dnt know i just wish i can get out of my system quick before she relize she messed up n want to come back again.. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-58673465259657362342013-07-24T21:16:07.484-07:002013-07-24T21:16:07.484-07:00Its hard but you'll make it. I went through th...Its hard but you'll make it. I went through the same exact thing n I was pregnant with twins it took me about 5yrs to actually get over him but im glad I did. He didnt deserve me or my babies but its strange now how he tells me he made the wrong decision 6yrs to late for that lol... Take care n b strongAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-52371781627251032992013-07-10T22:31:43.323-07:002013-07-10T22:31:43.323-07:00I just feel lost... lonely and so so sad.
I just feel lost... lonely and so so sad.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-81260322043404951332013-06-06T04:48:21.155-07:002013-06-06T04:48:21.155-07:00i've gone through pleading and now i'm sad...i've gone through pleading and now i'm sad.... Why can't i feel angry? He cheated on me. I should be able to feel angry. But im sad now....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-77397151425447155542013-05-12T15:15:54.153-07:002013-05-12T15:15:54.153-07:00i think i'm in a disbelief and hoping stage , ...i think i'm in a disbelief and hoping stage , is there such stage? maybe angry too but for sure i'm far far faaaaar from acceptance .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-11211239437171808392013-03-31T13:36:46.768-07:002013-03-31T13:36:46.768-07:00I'm now in the sadness stage...I just decided ...I'm now in the sadness stage...I just decided to write a letter to my ex...and in this letter I wrote down everything I was feeling...it actually made me feel a lot better and right after writing the letter...I felt some of the sadness go away...the healing process is underway!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-31966574035737505932013-03-21T11:55:20.528-07:002013-03-21T11:55:20.528-07:00i love him so much.now that he is gone and married...i love him so much.now that he is gone and married to another girl in visayas last september..because of some invalid reason.all i can do is pray that God will help me to lift myself again and learn from that unfair and painful experience.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-73144542478526951152013-03-21T11:49:08.016-07:002013-03-21T11:49:08.016-07:00i needed this so much.its been 7 months and im sti...i needed this so much.its been 7 months and im still recovering from the pain.. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-64649041938745889142013-03-20T16:46:12.967-07:002013-03-20T16:46:12.967-07:00I just hate how long this process has taken, over ...I just hate how long this process has taken, over 5 yrs!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-18333301220736572532013-03-20T16:44:07.830-07:002013-03-20T16:44:07.830-07:00Thank you, it helps to see that I went through the...Thank you, it helps to see that I went through these stages after my sons father decided not to form a family with me. It felt like the biggest insult ever. I was in shock thru the pregnancy and between anger and sadness after he was born. In fact, I get angry just thinking about it, feel like I missed being joyful at an important event in my life, being pregnant and having a baby, something you look forward to as a kid.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-60458271418571510782013-03-07T21:47:37.983-08:002013-03-07T21:47:37.983-08:00I so needed to read this. I'm in between anger...I so needed to read this. I'm in between anger and sadness. I never looked at it as if I was my best friend. That gives me strength to know I made the right decision.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7089229522714734535.post-35236869894681796482012-10-01T01:31:13.525-07:002012-10-01T01:31:13.525-07:00Thankyou. Currently in the anger stage. have found...Thankyou. Currently in the anger stage. have found this article helpful and the advice makes a lot of sense. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com